Parental control on their kids


Parental Control

The types of parental control on their kids can be either physical or psychological. Physical control is when the parents use threats, punishment, and violence to keep their children in line. Psychological control is when the parents use emotional manipulation, guilt trips, and mind games to keep their children in line. Both methods are harmful to the child’s development and can result in lasting psychological damage.

Physical control

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Physical control usually involves punishment for bad behavior. The child may be spanked, yelled at, or sent to their room. This type of discipline is often used in combination with psychological control, such as yelling at the child and then sending them to their room. The child learns that they are not allowed to express their feelings or behave in a certain way, and that they will be punished if they do. This can lead to anxiety, low self-esteem, and problems with social interaction.

Psychological control

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Psychological control usually involves using guilt trips and emotional manipulation. The parents may say things like “You’re making me so angry,” or “I’m doing this for your own good.” They may tell the child that they are being selfish or that they don’t love them anymore. This type of discipline can damage the child’s self-esteem and lead to problems with depression, anxiety, drug abuse, eating disorders, and other mental health issues.

Physical control over a child is usually easy to recognize because it involves hitting, yelling, or other forms of violence. Psychological control is much harder to recognize because it involves emotional manipulation that can be subtle and may not feel harmful at the time. Such acts may include saying “I’m sorry”, when you don’t mean it, or using guilt trips.

several examples of parental control

There are several examples of how this type of parental control can manifest. For example, when a child misbehaves or says something disrespectful, the parent might use physical force to hit them or yell at them. This may also happen in public places when other people are around. The parents don’t give the child any privacy and always ask questions about their day when they get home from school. The child never gets to make decisions and the parent overrules the child’s opinions, even though they are too young to be making those types of choices. The child is not allowed to express their feelings and is criticized when they do.

Disadvantages of physical violence

Often, parents who use physical violence as a form of control will say that it was an accident or that it was a result of their own bad day. They may also use serious threats to keep the child in line, such as saying that they will kill themselves if the child misbehaves or does something wrong.

In some cases, physical violence is not used by the parent but rather witnessed from another source. This can happen when a parent works long hours and comes home stressed and exhausted. The child may be left alone with a babysitter or older sibling who yells at them, hits them, or threatens to hurt them if they misbehave.

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