Single Parenting – Positive And Negative Effects On Child Development


Single Parenting – Positive And Negative Effects On Child Development

Single parenting can be stressful. They have a million things to take care of while they also have to ensure their little one is not ignored. Child development is always affected when a child is brought up by a single parent. Both parents play a very important role in the upbringing of a child because both have different things they can contribute. 

Single parenting has positive and also negative effects on a child across the various stages of child development. Read on to find out more about such effects.

The Positive Effects Of Single Parenting On Child Development

Single Parenting – Positive And Negative Effects On Child Development
Single Parenting – Positive And Negative Effects On Child Development
  • Strong parent-child bonding– The parent-child bonding is stronger between a single parent and a child than that of a child with both parents. You need to understand this and make sure this bond doesn’t diminish. Also, if you don’t feel this strong bond, you may need to work on it. It is also a fact that a child’s connection with a single parent goes beyond the age of 18 years.
  • Strong sense of community– A single parent usually has a lot of support from the community. In single parenting, the extending family of the parent usually plays a big role in the upbringing of the child. If the parent doesn’t live close to an extended family, neighbors and community members help out. A single parent is also more active in community activities. 
  • Children share responsibilities– Kids brought in single parenting households tend to be more responsible. This is essential as such contributions affect the whole family system. It also leads to children understanding the value of their contribution and enjoying the responsibilities they take on. As parents, it is important to recognize the efforts children put in. It is also important that parents praise them for their contribution. Parents should also be specific when asking children for help.
  • Maturity– Children brought up by a single parent are more responsible. They see how hard their parent is working and this leads them to work with their parents. Such children are also aware of the low-lights of life and how to manage their disappointments. Such children also grow up to be more empathetic adults. Parents should be supportive when their children feel disappointed.

The Negative Effects On Child Development

Single Parenting – Positive And Negative Effects On Child Development
Single Parenting – Positive And Negative Effects On Child Development
  • Financial problems– Single parenting brings with it many financial constraints. The parent has to work long hours and put in extra shifts to make ends meet. This may lead to the parent sometimes ignoring a child’s need. It could also lead to the child feeling neglected. Additionally, these financial constraints may put a cap on your child’s dreams.
  • Low quality of parenting– Because of the extra workload single parents take on, they may miss important events of their child’s life. They may not be able to make it for their child’s school functions or friend’s birthday parties.
  • Low self-esteem– Studies also suggest that children brought up in single parenting households tend to have low self-esteem. They crave attention and lose expectations in their future relationships.  
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